Level 1: Foundations
Master the essential building blocks of ejaculatory control through science-backed techniques
Scientific Foundation
This level is validated by 57 clinical studies in our research database. The techniques you'll learn have been proven effective in peer-reviewed medical journals.
View Research Database →🎯 Level 1 Objectives
Identify and Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor
Learn to locate and contract the PC muscle without engaging abs or glutes
Discover Your Personal "Point of No Return"
Recognize the threshold where ejaculation becomes inevitable
Perform Your First Stop-and-Go
Successfully pause stimulation at least once before orgasm
Extend Duration Slightly
Gain 10-30 seconds of additional control (small wins count!)
Establish a Training Journal
Begin tracking your progress systematically
📚 Understanding the Physiology
Ejaculation = A Neurophysiological Reflex
The Reflex Chain:
- 1. Signal captured by nerve endings in the penis
- 2. Travels via pudendal nerve → spinal cord → cerebellum
- 3. Descends to sacral spinal cord
- 4. Activates bulbospongiosus and ischiocavernosus muscles
- 5. → Expulsion of semen
Two Systems at Play:
⚡ Sympathetic System
Stress/excitement → accelerates the reflex
🧘 Parasympathetic System
Calm/relaxation → slows down and gives control
The Reflex Chain:
- 1. Signal captured by nerve endings in the penis
- 2. Travels via pudendal nerve → spinal cord → cerebellum
- 3. Descends to sacral spinal cord
- 4. Activates bulbospongiosus and ischiocavernosus muscles
- 5. → Expulsion of semen
Two Systems at Play:
⚡ Sympathetic System
Stress/excitement → accelerates the reflex
🧘 Parasympathetic System
Calm/relaxation → slows down and gives control
Key Insight: Training consists of regulating nerve excitability and the timing of the trigger. You're not fighting biology—you're learning to modulate it.
🔍 Locating Your Pelvic Floor Muscles
Test 1: Urine Stream Stop
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While urinating, try to stop then restart the flow
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Max 1-2 times per week (avoid bladder irritation)
Test 2: "Dry" Contraction
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Imagine holding in gas
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Feel contraction around the anus
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Notice lifting sensation under the testicles
Test 3: During Erection
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Achieve a gentle erection
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Contract → visible penis lift
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Release
Important: These 3 tests = your sensory reference points. You should be able to consciously contract these muscles at will.
💪 Kegel Exercises: The Foundation
Strengthen the pelvic floor to control the ejaculatory reflex. After 3 months of regular practice, most men notice significant duration improvement.
5-Level Progression System
1
Basic Kegels
How: 3-second contraction → 5-second release
Rhythm: 10 repetitions, 2-3 times daily
Position: Lying down
Criterion: No activation of abs or glutes
2
Quick Kegels
How: Contract/release rapidly
Rhythm: 10 repetitions
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Endurance Kegels
How: 10-15 second hold
Rhythm: 5 repetitions, once daily
4
Kegels During Erection
How: Same as basic, but while erect
Goal: Isolate contraction without increasing arousal
5
Reverse Kegels
How: Simulate expulsion (opposite of contraction)
Sensation: Release at the base of the penis
Rhythm: Alternate 10 cycles Kegel ↔ Reverse
1 Basic Kegels
How: 3-second contraction → 5-second release
Rhythm: 10 repetitions, 2-3 times daily
Position: Lying down
Criterion: No activation of abs or glutes
2 Quick Kegels
How: Contract/release rapidly
Rhythm: 10 repetitions
3 Endurance Kegels
How: 10-15 second hold
Rhythm: 5 repetitions, once daily
4 Kegels During Erection
How: Same as basic, but while erect
Goal: Isolate contraction without increasing arousal
5 Reverse Kegels
How: Simulate expulsion (opposite of contraction)
Sensation: Release at the base of the penis
Rhythm: Alternate 10 cycles Kegel ↔ Reverse
🧘 Breathing & Mindfulness
Control your arousal through breathing. These exercises activate the parasympathetic system and delay the ejaculatory reflex.
Exercise 1: 4-7-8 Breathing
- Inhale for 4 seconds
- Hold for 7 seconds
- Exhale for 8 seconds
- Repeat 5 times daily, then before any sexual activity
Exercise 2: Belly Breathing
- Hand on stomach
- Breathe deeply so belly expands (not chest)
- 5 minutes daily
Exercise 3: Mindful Arousal Observation
- Notice sensations without judgment
- Label arousal level (1-10)
- Practice non-reactive awareness
📊 The 0-10 Arousal Scale
Goal: Stay between 5-7 as long as possible. Stop at 8 before reaching 9.
🎯 Exercise: Conscious Masturbation
Practice arousal awareness in a controlled environment. This is your training ground.
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Preparation
- • Private, quiet space
- • No porn or visual stimulation
- • Focus on physical sensations only
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Stimulation
- • Begin slow, gentle stimulation
- • Monitor arousal level constantly
- • Use breathing to regulate
3
The Stop
- • Stop completely at level 7-8
- • Take deep breaths
- • Wait until arousal drops to 5-6
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Repeat
- • Resume stimulation
- • Try 3-5 stops minimum
- • Track your progress
📝 Progress Tracking
Keep a simple journal to track your progress:
Daily Log Template:
- • Date & Time
- • Kegel exercises completed (Y/N)
- • Practice session duration
- • Number of successful stops
- • Highest arousal level reached without ejaculation
- • Notes on what worked / what didn't
Ready for the Next Level?
You've mastered the foundations. Levels 2-4 teach advanced techniques for complete mastery.
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